October 15-17, 2021**Inquire about additional dates.
What is our mission statement?To provide a respite
weekend in the Colorado Rockies for married couples that have experienced the
death of a child.
Our core purpose is to provide a Christ-centered weekend retreat for
married couples that have experienced the death of a child. The mountain
setting will offer a unique environment for a respite weekend. This weekend is
a mix of the reality of loss, yet the evident hope of a marriage that is daily
relying on God’s promises. A respite is described as brief relief or rest from something difficult.
are not professional counselors conducting a conference or seminar, but rather,
we are a husband and a wife on this journey of grief as well. Our hope is that
our unique journey could somehow provide encouragement and hope to the journey
your marriage is now on. In short, we are just a little further down this road
and therefore have some experiences to share. We do not lecture, but we do
contribute content as we facilitate a small group of grieving marriages.
The teaching sessions are based upon the Holy Bible and the life specific experiences we will share as we continue to move through our own loss and its impact upon our marriage. We may also have guest speakers, or utilize writings from authors specifically addressing grief and marriage.
Who comes to the marriage respite retreat?This
is first and foremost a marriage retreat for husbands and wives who are
experiencing the loss of a child. We are
not professional counselors, and this is not intended to take the place of any
professional counseling that might be needed. There will be a wide variety of couples who attend with unique differences in the age of their child who died, and a wide range of causes. Each couple’s story is complex, valuable and
needs to be shared.
We feel called and equipped to a very specific ministry which is to encourage husbands and wives in their marriage relationship as they grieve the death of their child. We can uniquely offer comfort to others in the same manner to which we have been comforted by God (2 Corinthians 1:3-4). This weekend is foremost a marriage retreat and thus the focus is on how the marriage moves through grief with a Biblical perspective of loss. We realize this could be disappointing for men and women who are not married, and we do not diminish the pain and difficulty you are experiencing. Our personal equipping from our experience is unique to that of a husband and wife navigating this grief journey together.
Each grief journey is unique. This journey impacts each marriage differently. The right time to attend the marriage retreat is the time that the couple determines it is the best time. It is important that both the husband and wife desire the retreat weekend. In many circumstances, well-meaning family and friends can author the idea without understanding the many elements of grief that impact when a husband and wife are ready to pursue this type of encouragement.
Where is it held?Our retreats are held at the YMCA of the Rockies in Estes
Park, Colorado. The YMCA is in a
beautiful setting adjacent to Rocky Mountain National Park. We host the
teachings, fellowship and meals in a cabin we reserve from the YMCA for the
weekend. You are welcome to rent a cabin
for yourselves or choose from the wide variety of lodging available in the Estes
retreat costs each couple $350 which is due upon application. This
covers all the materials and meals (Friday night through Sunday breakfast). The fee is nonrefundable; however, it is
transferable to another retreat. Lodging and travel are not included in the price of the retreat.
Please click the APPLY NOW button below to fill out the online form. Registration for the retreat is limited, so fill out the application in full, provide the requested photos and pay the registration fee either by check or by using the payment portal. Once we have received all three items, we will review the application.
What to expect after the retreat?Our hope is that a
community of support would develop amidst the couples attending the respite
retreat marriage weekend. We encourage the exchange of contact information,
and the active growth of the relationships established during this weekend. Our
ministry, though we would enjoy it , simply doesn’t have
the needed capacity to function in an ongoing mentoring role. Our focus is to
target our energies to hosting additional weekend marriage respite weekends for
those marriages on their grief journey with us.